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There are three different types of bullying: verbal bullying, physical bullying and cyber-bullying.
This type of bullying is when someone uses words to make someone else feel bad. Examples of this include when someone threatens you or makes fun of you. In the book “Blubber” by Judy Blum some of the kids in the story make fun of Linda Fischer for being fat by calling her “Blubber.”
Another example that’s been in the news a lot is about young people who are gay that have committed suicide (killed themselves) because they felt like they wanted to get away from the kids who bullied them and made them feel like they didn’t belong in the world.
This type of bullying is when someone uses his or her body to hurt you (punching, kicking, smacking, etc.) This is the kind that most people used to think of as the only kind of bullying. My aunt, Andrea Kelson, who is a Special Education teacher at PS96 in District 4 told me this true story about a 5th grade boy who got a “safety transfer” to a different school because he was getting pushed and shoved every day and the other kids called him names because he was very small. But the bullying continued even at his new school. Finally, from what his mother says, he couldn’t face the day to day torture of being punched and hit and non-stop name-calling and one day he hung himself in his bathroom. His mother found him dead. It is so sad that he wasn’t able to get help and felt that his life wasn’t worth living.
This type of bullying is when someone is tormented, threatened, harassed, humiliated, embarrassed, or otherwise targeted by another kid or teen using the internet or other technology (for example twitter, facebook, youtube, texting, email.) (This definition is from the website cyberbullying.org)
A few months ago, my mom and I watched a movie called “CyberBully” with Emily Osment starring as a girl named Taylor who finally gets her own computer for her birthday and goes online (for the first time without her mother looking over her shoulder) to a site like facebook to meet new friends. She gets caught up in people saying nasty things about her online. She becomes obsessed with what’s being written about her and begins to withdraw from her friends and family. She doesn’t even want to go to school anymore. Finally, she comes to a breaking point and attempts to commit suicide. But her lifelong best friend comes to her rescue before she is able to kill herself. She then goes to therapy and meets other teens who have been bullied and she realizes she wants to make sure this doesn’t happen to other kids. She and her mom take on the school administration and her state politicians to try to bring attention to the issue.
Another example from my aunt’s school was one where the physical bullying turned into cyber-bullying. This boy was in the bathroom and another boy said to his friends “Let’s beat up “John” and then film it and put it on YouTube.” The wanted to beat him up because he was smart and a good student. I think they were jealous and they wanted to feel powerful. They beat the boy up and posted the video on YouTube. After several days, the Principal found out about it, the parents and the police got invoved and the boys involved receved a superintendent suspension which is very serious.
My school, PS11, will not and does not tolerate any level of bullying and the consequences are very serious including suspension from school.